Senin, 08 Juni 2009

Victims of Divorce!

By: Salwa

What you ponder how the couple who lost their lives? You need to know the most serious stress in the human life is at the time they left by those who loved them. Most people make a suicide, not because of loss of wealth and position, but because the lonely.

During his life the Lord Jesus never complained, so the physical torment and suffering that even how the weight he still able to survive, but at the time he left by the Father who loves them, disitulah for the first time he complained. Jesus or God, who has become a human body though, and does not complain when the resistance left by the person whom he, especially our common human fragile and the weak.

Divorce is considered by many as illegitimate, so religion should be avoided, but I terpikirkan by them, that most women in the world unilaterally divorced by her husband or left sneak casually. Whether the religious leader to help her husband in order to impose a return?

At the time of death left a wife by her husband, many people come berkujung, prayer and even held a special evening of entertainment for the wife who left. After that no more neighbors and colleagues who came to entertain each other the widow, and even offer a range of help and assistance for the continuation of life that left his wife.

Widows and divorced widow who left her husband dead in equally suffer because couples lose their life, but have divorced widows suffer far more than the widow of the dead left by her husband.

At the time a divorced woman, please do not have people who want to come berkujung entertaining if not especially in gosipin azah is good, the widow of his life divorce is far more suffering, more severe and also more help and assistance is needed. He not only lived in by their husbands but also by all members of the family of her husband, does not have any income, while the death left a widow may still be able pension and inheritance, and also assisted by members of the family of her husband.

When the woman left by her husband dead, many of condolence consecutive even crying and praying for it, but for the widow divorce no one cares akan turut pederitaannya especially want to feel pain and sorrow his heart. Friends one by one dekatpun akan menjauhinya, because divorce is the widow lansung also be categorized as unclean women who like her husband ngerebut people. That's why it is divorced widow penderitaannya of time far more weight than the widow who left death by her husband, he not only left lonely because her husband, even be excommunicated by his family and friends.

Children who left by his father's death can still find out where the location of graves of his father, but what about the children who left by his father flee? What do they have to answer when asked by his friends school?

Women who left their life by pair should be ready and able to function as a husband, as father and as a breadwinner. They do not have time to study or mengadaptasinya first, because perobahan drastic happens in a day. That's why it's Boro-Boro ngurus have time for themselves to the needs and purposes ngurus day-to-haripun there is no time anymore. Time to pray and cry only at night only.

Most people prefer to choose the girl and married to the widow of the dead left by the widow of her husband divorced, in addition to the many widows divorce trauma into his life and the fear to start a new relationship again. Liver injury may be healed, but the wound can not be deformed and removed this will continue to haunt for a lifetime.

For those who want to know in more detail how to experience more of life's struggle and a woman left by her husband you can read in the book "Beyond The Valley Air" real story of the author's own, Mrs. Mundhi sabda Hardiningtyas.

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